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Okay, so I'm 34 and I finally feel financially stable enough to start dating and paying for the both of us. However, I'm socially retarded. How reasonable would it be to set up a dating prof...

>33M, given about 8 months to live by doc>spent last 3 months going places and doing things I wanted to do>going through advanced directives, last will shit with my lawyer>talking to the l...

>28yo khhv incel>the one thing i actually wanted to experience in life was teen sex but never did>will never be a teenager again>so i can never, ever, for the rest of my entire life until ...

I'm a 23 yo male and I did a DEXA body scan the other day and found out my body fat is 40% and I am osteopenic. I had labs drawn today and my ALT is elevated indicating that I probably have non a...

How many men are actually incels? Like, I can open a popular meme page on Instagram and see comments full of 4chan/Incel terms and lots of people joking about it. But surely if this stuff is popular, ...

I’m looking for advice about a long-term relationship that I feel stuck in.I’ve been with my partner for about 9 years. Over time, the relationship has become mentally exhausting. We have frequent con...

Am i wrong about this or not?So as someone with a vagina, i use to hate that i couldn’t usually finish from sex fast enough because when i masturbated i could finish within seconds, it also did not he...

Can a genuinely based guy (one who introduced me to red pill) genuinely just be immoral and cheat on you online and watch porn because he’s self sabotaging? Can a based guy recover from this and becom...

I asked for a dating advice in this board and someone said " If you are single and miserable approach Chubby girls " And I did thatThanks for the advice lad, just landed my first date in 2 y...

I created an AI to help with our finances and improve our monetary situation. I am hoping to build this AI so it can help people out around the country and hopefully make life a little bit easier for ...

Why do I need constant validation and approval for the things I like?

I've noticed a pattern for how i ruin all interactions with women i'm romantically interested in. It boils down to overthinking, I'm always constanty overthinking about her with immense...

Should I convert to Catholicism?

Is dying your hair gay? Premature graying runs in my family. I'm only 35 and I already look like this. My wife was teasing me about it and I reminded her that it'll happen to her too but she...

Do guys like chubby girls because l'm so insecure about it and I feel like everyone is so skinny

happens with friends, strangersIt's because I was raised to be a people pleaser by narcassist parents.How do I stop, just not help anyone and deal with the guilt? Help without wanting anything in...

Even just after meeting them, the first few days, girls are already scared I'll cheat on them. Like yes, I want to fuck them, but I'm also open for something long-term, IF they're a goo...

Romance is sadly not as idealistic as in my chinese cartoons, not like I've ever had one but from what I've seen and been told there's a lot of compromises both parties need to make and...

What are some good free social events or activities for making friends that don't require you to already have friends? Stuff that you can go to alone without people thinking you're weird.

Am I attractive enough to date a black girl?

Is it sexual harassment if my boss keeps calling me "chubby chaser"? They couldn't help but notice me getting visually turned on when I see voluptuous co-workers and clients, and now th...

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You should never instigate flirting, right? Only flirt if you're being flirted with.

I see all these videos online about people getting rich and they usually tell you to start a "business" or do "sales" or something. But one constant I see is that they were mentore...

Context:>be me, 20m, Septemberish of last year >total virgin, no relationships, and whatever >roommate starts dating a girl, she has a friend who apparently likes me > We try building some...

Trannies and allies need not apply, I wanna hear from someone outside that sphere.I have reoccurring trans thoughts and there seems to be evidence backing them up but I'm really not sure. I keep ...

My dad and mom were born so that they could create me. They knew I would be the greatest one in the bloodline. They knew I'd change our families fate and turn us into a dynasty. If I am to take u...

HELP!!! Any tech geeks out there?I need help finding a FREE AI image object removal tool that I don't have to pay to use, and I can use either unlimitedly on the web or install on my WINDOWS comp...

I'm a multimedia creator (writing, cooking, game design) but over the past few years I've found that people just aren't interested in what I make. It doesn't matter if I'm sho...

I'm 27, and I'm an abject failure in every area of life. There's nothing positive about my life, and there hasn't been for a long time. I've been desperately wanting to turn i...

I am 32. I got my BS in Computer Science at the end of 2018. I was 25 then.Is it too late for me to get a job in software development? At one point in the gap I worked at a convenience store for 2 yea...

How do I stop being a racist Chud?

My mom copes with life by drinking and I cope with life by cutting. But she thinks I need help and is forcing me to go to a psychiatrist with her. It don't make sense. She gets to be a horrible p...

How are you supposed to deal with dead bedrooms?It's one of my biggest fears if I am to enter a relationship. It's not even that I need to have sex all the time but I know that frequent sex ...

How do you cope growing old and ugly while other guys online are younger, fitter than you and having more sex in a week than you've ever had in your life?

How do I choose between being an unsociable reject creep vs. masking and living a lie?

How do you successfully avoid certain types of people without hurting their feelings?There are certain people that I just don't like their personalities. They talk about things I don't care ...

i chose not to follow my dreams and now i am a 30 year old fat miserable alcoholic. im starting to think my life choices were a mistake. how is life on the other side? are dream followers miserable to...

There is this new game that glorifies the idea of being a father to a little girl. It shows the idea as something purely wholesome. I have a feeling that it is all bullshit. Maybe real life is more st...

How do I stop feeling tired and lethargic after cumming? I want to keep my energy up for multiple rounds but I feel lile sleeping right away.

Okay, so I'm broke as fuck and on food stamps, and I'm resorting to this ramen noodle shit as my base source of carbs for each day of the week.Thing is, I don't like those fucking flavo...

I have to give my doctor poop samples by tomorrow morning and I don't feel like poopingAdvice?

I am a 20 year old woman, just for some context, I have had a bad feeling that something may have happened to me when I was very little, in my early teens I started to think on the weird behaviors I h...

Thoughts on plastic surgery? What are some small and simple ones you can do as a man to elevate your appearance?

This is what my cabinet looks like underneath the kitchen sink of the apartment I just moved into.Is this normally the condition landlords leave the kitchen sinks in when an apartment is ready for a n...

Been noticing my (26m) hair going for 10 years but its always been mostly hideable until now. I just looked in the mirror as the past week its felt thinner than usual. It looks awful now and I am actu...

>eat junk food and jerk off>want girlfriend and sex>eat healthy and dont jerk off>dont want girlfriendIsnt it supposed to be opposite? How do I fix this?

What advice can you give me to ensure I don’t waste my twenties?

>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and s...

Tomorrow is Friday. I want to go to a bar, meet a woman, chat for a while, get her phone number, then go on a date a week or so later. How do I do this? Usually, when I go to a bar, all the women arou...

>Generally has issues with anger; gets frustrated quickly and shouts very frequently, speaks before she thinks and takes it out on others.>Would hit sometimes when acting out as a kid.>Admitt...

I really need a job. Im 30 and have never worked any job in my life. I want to find something niche and mildly in demand but consistent. I want to start right away. I don't need to make more than...

I think this girl liked me and I was too much of a coward to talk to her, and let a lot of time pass trying to be good enough for her, and apparently she died, and now I don't know how to go on w...

What are the best things to learn for the job market? I have a degree in business and finance, so something I could use there. Hopefully related to AI.

Why do women treat me like a piece of human filth?

22 years old male graduating college and still a virgin. Going to do a masters next year though.I feel a deep, very painful, suicidal sense that I missed out on certain high school/college experiences...

Someone told me I have polyuria, but apparently that's when you piss a lot often. I have to pee very often, maybe every hour, hour thirty, but it's never an amazing amount like your first pi...

I love Mexican ladies but Cuba's expensive and I'm still struggling with Portuguese nouns, plus they're mean. Should I go to Iran and try to meet an Indian instead? Can I get either to ...

I like the movie punch drunk love because an autistic freak learns to stand up for himself and is able to find love. How do I do this. I’m unlovable and when I try to be confident everyone can tell it...

I love Japanese girls but Tokyo's expensive and I'm still struggling with Japanese verbs, plus they seem a bit hard to impress. Should I go to Manila and try to meet a Filipina instead? Can ...

What did you learn to like about women besides their ass cheeks, thighs, and pussy?

https://youtu.be/LOal99tAiZc?siI can't see how not. Thoughts? How long do you think this will take for the military to allow?

The past month my (now ex) girlfriend started spending a lot of time with a guy she met in a college class. They were going out together drinking until late night and shit like that. Of course when I ...

Is acknowledging a wrongdoing weeks after it happened considered bad? My stupid ass is just realizing that some stuff I did wasn't okay, and I want to apologize to some people. But I don't k...

>Interviewer: Where do you see yourself in 5 years? >Me: I would like to see advancement in that time from the role I am being hired for. >Interviewer: I don't think this will work out. ...

I am a man and I feel that with dating, I can't really have "high" standards I guess. I don't think my standards are low but I don't feel that I can't make half the deman...

I've decided to avoid and ignore my work crush completely because I've realized it's the only way for me to get over her, as I'm still infatuated with her, and we see each other ev...

Help me make sense of my ex's actions >be together 2 years >she was 18 when we start dating I was 22>she was bullied hard throughout school, never had friends, never received any romanti...

I had an early sexual experience at the age of 5 and I remember getting fuzzy when I saw older girls and women interacting with boys in cartoons and anime. I have since developed an attraction to seei...

I'm 28 and live in Ireland. I met this woman on TurnUp (Dating app for people who like music) and we had this chat. She unmatched after. What did I do wrong?

Is it a good idea for a 19 year old woman to become a flight attendant? It's my final year in a culinary program at a technical high school and I have no career plan and I definitely don't w...

I've been nice to a homeless dude near my job, but he offered to give me a blow job this morning. I enjoy being nice to people, especially people down on their luck, but I'm really not tryin...

How to deal with an asshole family member? I’ve asked around and everywhere I go it’s useless moralizing that doesn’t help my situation and so I wonder if there is anything I can do (I legit believe t...

My whole childhood was spent in foster care and institutionalized bs because my mom never got her act together. How do I stop feeling this way and grow up and make something of my life for once?

I really need help bros and I am not sure whats going on with me. I don't really have issues going to sleep but I normally wake up feeling tired still and groggy. I go to work and the first 1-2 h...

How does one cope with the fact that nobody will ever love him (not even his family), that he has been dealt the shittiest cards and that his life is a constant struggle?

How do you guys even Get a Job in Tech ? Today I’ve got 3 rejections in a row.Im soon graduating and im no longer knowing what should I do.Any advices ? Especially for a post graduates like me

>My parents had ruined my life from the very start.>Never got to progress, never got to do what others did.>Stuck in a rather repetitive job with low hours and inability to move out and all t...

I love black women but I'm a white nationalist. what should I do?

how do i get an e-boyfriend that will sleep vc with me every single night? (im a straight man)

So this girl who I’ve only texted with before, who has a bad home life, hit me up looking for a place to stay. I offered to help and hang out with her for a couple. Now I’m chilling with her and it tu...

Autistic question here.How hard would it be for someone like me to become an aircraft mechanic. For some reason I feel drawn to this job; but I know nothing about planes and the only tool I've ev...

how to move on from the trauma of circumcision? i got circumcised at birth and have trouble coping with the fact that my parents could do such a thing to me, not only that i left islam because its har...

>34 years old>zero interest in women>no friends>both of my parents hate meWhat do?

Just got done with my first relationship. Turns out she was cheating on me. So, i blocked her from everywhere and refused to listen to her guilty pleas. Her last messages are just her recording videos...

Hello. I'm M, 29, resident doctor in my last year of residency. My wife is also 29, she's in her first year. We have a 1 year old daughter. These are our backgrounds on short, we don't ...

DO GORLS LOVE FAT DUDES BECAUSE I'M SO GASSY AND THE OTHER MEN AROUND ME ARE SO LEAN OR MUSCULAR

Im a 22yo anon working in a male-dominated industry (truck driving), so naturally meeting women is a rare ocasion for me. Every single one of my colleagues is male and even if I see a girl my age at p...

I recently experienced what is coming to be known as AI psychosis. Visual, auditory and sensory hallucinations combined with irregular and manic behaviour.It is a fairly rare phenomenon but becoming m...

>painters are over to re-paint the apartment complex hallway>playing stupid radio music>coughing/clearing throat constantly>HURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGH>CAAUUGUHGH>HURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGP...

I have a crush on this girl for around 1 year. She's a coworker, but it's a big place so we barely meet.She's always minding her own business, very quiet and plain. But she's cute ...

I demand /adv/'s advice>at work>have a gorgeous coworker, 38>I say nothing, she keeps giving signals she has a crush on me>she's currently single>No simpery ensues>She'...

As of late, I have been feeling an overwhelming sense of loneliness and no matter what I try I cannot combat it for the life of me.I am at a complete loss and it's eating at me more and more as t...

so today im planning on telling my parents that im dating a 33 year old man. im 18F. we’ve been dating since January in secret. its been online so far but i really love him and he loves me too. its no...

How embarrassing could it be?I rage-quit my job today (just for today), and when my boss asked me what happened, I told him as vaguely as possible that I'm going through a lot right now. Yet it s...

So I have a friend whos an alcoholic, meth addict and just all drugs that he gets access to, he even did heroin few times just because he got it for free, hes balding, he has debt on social security, ...

i caught my gf of 4 years whom I lived with cheating about 3 months ago. she has since moved out as of last month but she still stops by to see our cat and pick up some of her things that are still in...

How can I find a woman like Elvira?

I'm 26 years all and all I want out of life is to have sex with a woman with huge boobs. Hiring a prostitute would defeat the whole purpose because I want to be worthy enough for a big breasted w...

I am desperate an sometimes I meet a woman (federal agent) who looks like she has down syndrome or is overweight or retardedThese are my 3 deal breakersFatRetardedFat and retardedCan I remain friend w...

Hello, this is rather embarrassing to admit. But lately I've been trying to confront my flaws and move forward in life, as I'm in my early 20s and don't want to be plagued with guilt an...

>Matched with this girl from tinder, talked and joked a bit. >Got a good back and forth going.>asked for her number. Got it>make plans to hang out together on Wednesday night for drinks>...

>$300 in checking account>$30 in savings>$20,000.00 in 401kShould I withdraw? I don't really have an emergency but I'd like to move out of my parent's home. I know I'll be...

My cousin is 20 and claims he is sexually attracted to pre-pubescent children and he argues that its because of his hentai addiction, because before 16 he never felt attracted to children or even girl...

heya /adv/ I know there's a lot of men on 4chan so I'm coming here for some help. I was wondering... what would a girl have to do to successfully hookup with u? and no I don't want to w...

Please /adv/. Please. Please. >at work>have a qt coworker 21f>no pretense. Tell her straight up I have a crush on her>she married young (he's 26m like me) but still wants to be friend...

How can I stop being attracted to my mom?

How the fuck are you supposed to get literally any job here in Canada today? Ay leafanons who've gotten hired recently please lend me your tips. God bless you all

How do I find a woman that will let me keep my dick inside of her after I bust?

>be me>24 years old warehouse wagie>go to work>go to gym after (hit 2 plate bench milestone a while ago)>come home, meditate, read, maybe play some free emulated vidya,>eat clean, co...

>live at home with mom and brother>sister moves back home after years renting, broke and no job>6'8 footballer boyfriend suddenly is over every thursday after practice>im the next bed...

Is 28 too old to become a pro streamer

Do women actually lose interest because of what you do, or because you didn’t accidentally do the one thing they were hoping for without telling you?

I met this milf, 10 years older than me, on a dating app almost 2 weeks ago. Instantly we set up a date for the upcoming saturday and since then we've been texting.We texted quite a bit, not supe...

Hello everyone,So I am an American guy with a decently well paying job who is able to travel and work overseas. I am living in the Philippines where I have lived fir 4 years, and been married to my fi...

I have premature ejaculation. It is part of the reason why my last girlfriend left me (part, not the sole reason). I'm now trying to solve it, but as with any exercise program, progress is slow.I...

For a while now I have gone on and off of interacting with my hobbies. This is not a case of having a tough week at work and simply needing rest. These periods last a long time, months. During which I...

hello, apologies for another thread of this kind. I became interested in a girl when I was at the climbing gym with my friend (m) she with hers (f). we were climbing next to each other or taking turns...

22 years KHHV. Is it over for me? Will I still be able to experience young love? What can I do?

I just applied for a low tier wagie job (some european groceries chain, think WalMart) and my throat is dry and I'm shiddin' and bissin' myself after NEETing for 6 years intermittently....

I'm a guy over 40 yeah i'm probably a loser because i'm still single and have other problems like dealing with an elderly sick parent, but I've done some cool stuff in my life and ...

I just earned my GED at 18 after being a shut-in high school dropout since aged 14. How do I celebrate? I told myself I'd make a dating app profile to try and find sex if I pass but now that I di...

I am 21I have never really had a friend in my life. After first meeting people talking then exchanging contact information, I end up never talking to them again. I can't think of anything I could...

How do I prevent myself from getting an erection when in the presence of a sexy girl?I know this may sound like a ridiculous question but I want to be able to have this ability in times when I don...

Gf wants me to get a vasectomy and honestly I think about doing it a lot. We dont want kids. i have enough stuff wrong with me that the next person down the line would resent being born, and my gf wou...

More often than not, around acquaintances and people I don't know, I don't know what to talk to them about if we don't share interests or know other people. Also conversation with peopl...

>homeshooled pastors kid virgin>grow up relatively normal but starved for human affection esp with women>go to large uni>work hard to develop social skills/social circle>junior and seni...

My girlfriend of three years just dumped me out of nowhere. I sincerely received no reason whatsoever as to why she decided to end things with me, besides really vague and cliche reasons. How do I avo...

So like is hypergamy a desirable trait in women?What's the difference between that and gold digging?

Feel like gradually, throught my life I changed as a person. Can't say I'm the same from the one I was from 2 years ago. However, I really need a drastic change of view. What's the easi...

We choose to incur more risk, not because we are brave, but because we are bored

Advice for dating a baddie? >BPD>Daddy issues>Drug problems>Alcohol>Tattoos and piercings>Rebellious >Fake nails>Extremely fucking loyal

I have posted about this before but I'm still obsessed. Do you think it is possible to regain one’s innocence? Especially after viewing porn or having sex. I just want to forget all of it.

How do you start talking to someone you've been in class with for almost a year now? I want to actually start talking to people. But idk how to start a conversation. Especially if it's a gir...

> be me> middle class kid, relatively normal life> meet quiet introverted girl> lowkey intellectual, insane music taste> she shows me new genres, aesthetics, whole different worldview&g...

I'm currently 19 years old and I have a serious problem with my cell phone and everything that comes with social media and video games. I feel an emptiness inside that I want to fill, but I'...

>did well at school>no girls ever attracted to me>made fun of by women as a loser beta>went to university>no girls ever attracted to me>girls didn't acknowledge my existence>...

A long time ago I was a pretty asocial kid or whatever you call it friendless. Bullyng, and to this day my mother tells me that I give a mentally retarded that my good future is useless, and soon I wi...

How do I do other things instead of browse the catalog every day and night? I said to myself "if I quit 4chan then I will be forced to do anything else that probably should be done anyway but is ...

>Discover sissy porn>A whole new world of kink opened>Spend a lot of time into sissy porn>Desire to become a sissy increases, sexuality goes bisexual leaning gay>Some time later realize...

I'm a 24yo male virgin, which, now that I am typing it out is only really starting to hit me. I usually don't get self-conscious over stuff like that and laugh when I see younger guys compla...

I don't know what's wrong with me. For the record I have autism and ocd and historyof intrusive thoughts. I found a site with cp,reported it 100 times,kept going back to report over and over...

I am currently sitting in my apartment in my living room.https://vocaroo.com/1cu6fKDwzS5OAnd this is what it sounds like. It's like this everyday. These are my neighbors.You think I should move?

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Ever since GLP1s became popular I've noticed fewer and fewer BBWs around. Can't find them on tinder or even around Walmart. I just want to fuck fat bitches

How do I stop this? I don't really find the female form exceptionally attractive but I don't have much experience with women and every time I'm alone all I can think about is being nurt...

>go on date with woman last sunday>she's prettier than in her photos>she tells me she's been in dating apps for a short time>we have a good night>we agree on seeing eachother ...